Vietnam customs dating
When westerners look at Vietnamese love relationships, they may be astonished by the differences between the cultures.
An ugly woman who could work was often considered a better catch than a beautiful one who couldn't work.
It is important for the man to get to know the family because Vietnamese women rarely date without the ultimate goal of marriage and a woman will want her husband to form an everlasting and respectful bond with her family.
When going on a first date, and even subsequent ones, the man is expected to plan and pay for the entire affair.
Protocol dictates that a man introduces himself to the family of the woman whom he is interested in dating prior to asking her out.
It is also considered proper etiquette to spend time with the family on multiple occasions, often bringing gifts such as flowers and wine, before asking her parents for permission to formally date their daughter.